If you love a girl but she does not love you how can you get her attention?

A Girl That Doesn't Love You Back

• I am just passing from such situation. Guys, normally every girl never like a boy who really like her. Also you never know what they feel about you and how they will react. So at the first chance it is very necessary you clear your feelings. Then it is depend on the girl that you want still want her as a friend or not. By making your point clear you will get exact idea about her and that will stop you to get emotionally involve if she do not like you. Because every friendship on timespan converts in emotional attachment whether it is two way or one way. "Woman and weather are always unpredictable." So never get emotional with any woman. Just Chill and enjoy the life.
  

• Here is advice: I couldn't find a way to post this as an 'answer' so I am 'improving' the existing answer. The best way to get a girl to love you/like you from a girl's perspective- and this has actually happened to me.I suggest dating someone else and making sure she knows. Women like to know that the men they are with are desirable. That is how my current boyfriend got me. :)Try it out and let me know, I think there is a 85% percent success rate with this one!!

• This is a complicated question. Why do you think you "love" her? And does she not love you because she's had the opportunity to love you and chose not to, or does she even know that you are "in love" with her? Is it a crush and you would like to get to know her? If a girl is pushing you away, the best thing to do is offer to be her friend, be there for her, and don't throw yourself at her. The best way to develop a love relationship is to develop a friendship first. If that friendship blossoms into mutual love, then you've got a match made in heaven :) But if it doesn't, you still have a good friend.

• There really isn't anything you can do. Be a good friend, be there for her. Just lay off of the "love" subject for a while and she may see what a nice guy you are if you are content with beig her friend.

• I'm in a simular situation. I've more or less told her how I feel and she says she "likes" me too, but I can tell it's not in the same way. I will tell you this though. I did somthing really good for her (got her out of a sticky situation at school by doing a major-final- assignment for her) and she seemed to really respond. She wasn't expecting it and I think it may be the thing I use in the future to advance the relationship. If your like me, you don't want another friend. Maybe you could try somthing like what I did, make a gesture and observe the reaction.

• I once did a final assignment for a girl. I think there's a slim chance it could actually do good in terms of advancing a relationship. My experience was that it did not help. The girl was thankful for about 2 days, then she went on with life as usual, i.e. without paying much attention to me.

• Show her you love her. The basic steps: Hold her hands, hug her when she leaves, hold open the doors, tell her how much you really love her. Buy her things and offer to pay for her for things. Call her just to say hey and have a nice conversation.

• Sometimes you can't. I liked a girl for two years, hoping one day we could be more than friends, I tried too hard, was too nice, I would do anything for her, but she never appreciated anything. So now i have too except that i have to move on. What you can do is show them you care, but avoid them at times, this way they want to be with you. Try say no to them as much as possible, this is what i find really hard, but you have to, to keep them interested, otherwise you will always be just a friend.

• Love is a tough one. All girls are different. just dont be like me and get pissed off at them for not loving you back. big mistake, theyl just be through with you all together. dont swamp them, give them their space, then if they really do like you theyll miss your company. definetly dont talk about yourself all the time and how much you love them, cant emphasize that enough, almost ruined a friendship. i'd much rather have a friend then an enemy. there is a thin line between love and hate.

• Dude, two most important things: Be a friend to her first and have confidence in yourself i.e. don't be someone or do something just cause you think others want/expect it of you. You're on your own afterwards dude, but hang on to these two fundamentals and you should do okay. Oh and one more thing, experience is the greatest teacher of them all so even if this one doesn't work out, keep on trying. You'll get it someday. Oh, and one more thing: DON'T BUY HER APPROVAL! You need to believe that you're cool enough, that just spending time with you should be a gift for her. And if you can really start to believe you're that cool (though careful you don't get too cocky), she will start to believe it too. You know, make her laugh, make her smile, treat her like one of your friends. You wouldn't buy one of your guy friend's jewelry would you? The thing is, you can't force attraction; it's something that happens, not something that is accomplished. Therefore you become attractive by being attractive, not by doing something attractive. Does that make any sense? It's complicated I know, but just keep your chin up and always keep learning.

• Now the guy above says everything I wanted to say and with style.

• The answer here is simple, you can possibly do everything in the world to impress her (showering her with attention, gifts, money, love, care...etc) but if she does not love you these things won't mean a thing to her. This is love you are talking about, a person's heart, it functions differently than anything else. I am guessing your actual question was this "If you love a girl and she does not love you, how can you get her attention so she can love you in the end?"

• No doubt you all gathered that this a very touchy topic and a difficult one! I think girls usually tend to like men with charisma, definitely a sense of humour, someone they can trust, someone they know will be there when they need them. It is quite hard to determine what mix of these factors (and others not mentioned) a particular girl likes. Often, it is important and 'useful' to be ones self and not to overdo anything. Even if you flatter her with what you think she likes so much so it is not in your personality - it is a recipie for disaster. Never 'try' to impress her, let your personality (the unmodified version!) impress her - if it doesn't, this match will rarely work. Bottom line - instincts answer the question quicker than your mind can deciper. follow the instincts and things will turn out well. Never pretend and try to be as faithful as you can be to your emotions and that I think is the best!

• I like a girl at the moment but i dont thing she feels the same way about me. Im reading all of your answers and now im posting my own, there is no answer on how to make a girl fall in love with you, all you can possibly do is be yourself and let her see the true you. if you pretend to be nice, pretend to be exiting, pretend to be interesting, then one day you wont be able to pretend anymore then she will see the true you and walk away and your heart will be broken and she will forget about you, the best and really only thing you can do is be yourself and if you do like her let her know, dont pretend, dont fake it, dont try it, do it be yourself and let her see the true you and if she still isnt interested then she is not the girl for you and move on. There are some things we cant fake or pretend there are somethings where we have no power over and this is one of them, all we can do is be ourselves and hope for the best. just dont pretend because you will end up hurting you and the girl you love.

• Hey lads, i was once in your shoes. I got to know one girl but our friendship soon turned into best-friends and before long i started to love her. Most people dont know what love is but for me this was different because all i wanted to do is be with her. I waited two years before telling her everything about how i felt towards her maybe i was abit lucky but soon after i had told her everything we finally got things sorted out and now we are together and we are taking each day as it comes. This is to prove that good things happen to good people and if you wait then one day it will happen to you and once it does you will be writing the same thing on this website as i have.

• This is a complicated question, but from my experience the best thing to do here, would be first to develop a friendship with her, then, if you still love her, just walk up to her when she is standing still, when she looks at you, put your hands on her shoulders, gaze deep into her eyes, then just tell her you love her, if she turns and walks away, dont worry, she either doesnt know what to say or how to react, or at least she knows how you feel, if she likes or loves you back, she will turn your hands on her shoulders into a hug, no backing out now, she knows how you feel. this worked for me, hopefully it will work for you! cheers

• I don't know how to express myself as eloquently as some people on here but i will try my best. I know my girl from college and immediately found her attractive. It turns out we were abelto talk very easily and we both amused each other. Unfortunately, she liked another guy and i tried my best to get them together (If she's gonna be happy, let her be happy) I got mixed signals from her and eventually told her how i felt. I did indeed think at the time, that the person she liked was me. However, i was wrong and i didn't get a good answer. Luckily, i brought some cards to play and we began talking again. If you want to continue being friends, might aswell not make it awkward. Afterwards though she began to like me. She ended up rejecting the other guy and picking me. Long story short, make sure you're there. I've made the mistake of being too possesive at times but i'm working on that. A relationship doesn't flourish because of what you have, it's how easily you can work on yourself to make yourselves right for each other. IF your'e willing to make the effort then that person is probably right for you. OOo one last thing, it's been a month since we started, i haven't told her anything about love ^_^ and it seems to be working fine. When you say it, make it count; i know i will!